Gal 2:20 “I have been crucified with Christ; and it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and fnthe life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself up for me."
He PROVED His love for me by enduring and giving himself up for me. i, should be perfectly overjoyed in my heart to do the same for those around me. Yes, that includes unloving spouses, ungrateful kids and rude bosses. Gods power is made perfect in weakness...when you desire to love like He loves. Then He will pump you so full once you DIE to your rights and just let His love and power pulse through your veins!
Jesus loved so He GAVE, God so loved that He gave. They experience joy because of it.